Life Groups
Life Group Distinctives
- Life
groups are autonomous. Each group makes its own decisions about meeting
times (the group is free to meet on a day other than
Sunday), place of the meeting, use of
curriculum, a
group faicilitator (note the Life Group Directives below), whether food
is served, arrangement of child care, etc. (a nursery can be provided
on Sunday evenings.
- In order to be a member of the group, each
person will be asked to sign a "commitment to the group" which states a
person's desire to make the attendance at group meetings a priority and
a willingness to keep group discussions confidential.
- All groups begin with six to eight people with a commitment
to reach
out to people beyond the initial circle to those who are not active in
church or those who are not connected with others in spiritual
matters.
Groups should try to limit the toal number to twelve.
- Ideally,
no group should grow larger than twelve members. Groups larger than
twelve generally lose strong small group dynamics. The goal is for the
groups to build relationships, share conversations, and grow
spiritually.
- All groups form with an understanding that at the
end of eighteen months, the group will divide and seek to build new
groups of up to twelve members each. Once again, each new group should
be in-reach and outreach oriented, looking inside and outside the
church for members.
How are groups formed? A group is formed
with the commitment of a person to become a group facilitator. This
person will be fresponsible for forming his or her small group. Names
will be proveded to group facilitators of those interested in joining a
small group.
Life Group Directives
- The group
facilitator must be a professing Christian with sound doctrine and
direct ties to Trinity Baptist Church, such as faithful membership to
the church or Sunday School. A copy of the curriculum should be shared
with the small group staff liaison.
- Each life group member will will be askied to sign the
following statement of commitment: I
promise to make attendance of group meetings a top priority and will
not miss the meetings for petty reasons. I promise to keep matters
discussed at group meetings confidential as this will help build trust
among group members. While life group discussions will cover a wide
range of topics, I commit to do my part in keeping spiritual
development as the main reason for group gatherings.
- Life
groups should seek to do their outreach in the first year the group is
formed, preferably during the first five months. Groups may add members
anytime during the first year with the understanding that twelve is the
ideal group number. Larger numbers begin to break down small group
dynamics. The later new people are added to the group, the harder it
will be for them to bond to the entire group. Therefore, no
group members should be added during the second year the group
meets.
- At the end of 18 months, groups will split, forming new
groups. Names of group facilitators for the new, divided groups should
be passed on to the church staff liaison for life groups. Help will be
given if desired for adding new group members. However, it is more
likely that groups will be strong enough to add their own members. Each
group must still be committed to in-reach and outreach and maintain a
commitment to Trinity's life group distinctives.
- Group
facilitators should be willing to gather with church staff periodically
for training, sharing of ideas, and discussion of the small group
process that's currently in place in order to improve any
areas of
weakness in the current model.